Fred ... you have touched upon an aspect of life that is more meaningful to some of us than even you might believe. I was talking to a friend at breakfast this morning. It was just him and myself at a large table that had the potential to become so noisy at a time when every chair was filled, it was difficult to be heard by the person next to you. We often go deeper into some topics than others. I was trying to express how I felt at times, now that I am 74 and those things I loved to do, like hunting, fishing, gardening and yard-work, have become so difficult and demanding, they have lost most of what made them enjoyable for me in the past. The realization for me WAS; it's not that the activities has changed ... it was ME that was doing all the changing. TOO EASY! Yes! Many things can become too easy but for so many of us, things have gotten too difficult.
I told my friend that lately, I had this feeling of becoming separated from life as I once knew it. For me, memories are all that I have left concerning certain aspects of life. Now I fear a time when even those will be lost to me.
Hello!Do you have a few minutes?I’d sure like to talk to you a bit.
be shocked, but what you see before you is YOU fifty years from now.I know that at some point in the near future,
you will adopt the belief that you are destined not to make it until your
fortieth birthday. Please allow that fact to reveal to you exactly how wrong
you can be.
I do not
know how or who made this opportunity possible but please know that I am
thankful for it. You have already made one very large mistake. You married at
19, have a two year old daughter, left them behind and joined the U. S
Army.Even now, your lonely, vengeful,
young wife is pregnant and will bear another daughter.Do you see how messy life can be when you
rush at it like charging an enemy machine-gun position? Reckless is what you
are right now. Reckless and stupid!
wait to be out in the world, living life as you thought best. Do you remember
what that man who ran the Guest House at Ft. Sill tried to tell you?You were stomping around, ranting loudly
about how awful life was. Your wife surprised you with your baby girl, left
home to be with you, where she thought a good wife should be.You didn’t want them there. You were doing
your best to run away from your responsibilities. That man said “Young fellow,
this world doesn’t own you a thing. You will get out of your life exactly what
you are willing to invest in it.Hard
work, dedication, honoring the commitments you make, not by blaming everyone
but yourself. You wouldn’t hear it then …
but the day will come when his words will ring truer than any other
hard-learned lesson life will teach you. They don’t call learning about life
your way, The School of hard knocks for nothing. Believe me when I say, in the near
future you will not be any more receptive to good advice than you are at this
Hell mister, you won’t even consider yourself grown-up until you are
thirty-one years old. By then you will have married and divorced your second
wife with whom you were careless enough to impregnate twice. Three children to
support and you barely have what passes for a job.
ahead is steep. In fact, some might define it as a mountain. But, have heart,
you can overcome this formidable obstacle if you are willing to change, apply
yourself and consider well the next steps you will take.
I know …
you are asking yourself where one can find direction, reliable guidance and
help.You are not worthless or stupid,
though some have implied as much.You
have been witness to excellent examples of how one should live life.You Mother left you that tape. You listened
to it, sobbing all the while.She made
some wild prophecies, visions of the future and you … you did not believe one
word of it.
will come when you grow tired of taking the wrong path and paying the penalties
imposed by life.You will not be
thinking clearly then for you rely upon your own understanding.
There is an
aspect of life that you have ignored; put completely out of your consciousness.
At a time when you have surpassed the limit of years you have imagined for your
lifespan, you WILL have an experience that will expand your mind, vision,
understanding and knowledge. From that point on, you WILL be changed.You will be a new man. You will be introduced
to the spiritual aspect of life.You
will become wiser than you ever imagined and creativity will flow through you
like a rushing wind. You will discover your soul and know the source of all
life. You will be inspired to write, you will have a difficult time accepting
all the gifts you will be blessed with.
will come, love so strong and pure, you will at first doubt that it is possible
for it to exist.It will fill you to
overflowing, so abundant that there will be enough to share with all the world.
The new man
that you become will live a blessed life from then on. Be humble, gentle and
receptive to the spirit world that is all around you. You will be tested. All
blessed men are.You will share that
blessed life with another that will become one flesh. Two score plus years you
will share with her … and then, eternity awaits both of you, full of love
through life will be well lit and certain. Your steps will be confident and
sure.Fear not for you have been
Do you remember when people used to talk about "the information highway" while trying to describe the Internet?
I suppose I've been away from the Internet in general for too long a time. A few minutes ago I attempted to go to a website that I used all the time couple years ago. It is called "how stuff works." My, my, my, how things have changed while I was away. I used to go there for answers and found them in abundance. Now, all I find there are ads; ads for how to purchase the item I was trying to get information about. I didn't inquire about prices or where I might find them should I decide to buy one.
Could someone out there enlighten this dumb old hillbilly? Do you know a website that tells you how to fix things and in doing so explains how it works?
Or, failing that, if you are someone whom in the past has needed to discover how a dual flush toilet works, perhaps you could share with me how you found out. I would appreciate it immensely. If you would be so kind, please share with me, via e-mail what ever you might consider to be helpful to me. My address is clarence DOT bowles AT gmail DOT com.
I've been around a while, 75 years now.
I like to think I can write. You may hold a different opinion after reading a little of what you find here. Please browse if you have the mind to. I'll be here when you're done (Lord willing)